Bill Hybels could leave a different kind of legacy

I am shocked and saddened by what is being reported about Bill Hybels and Willow Creek Community Church. For many years, Hybels was the church leader I respected and learned from the most. I’ve visited Willow Creek, attended and taught some of their courses, and absorbed and applied many books, sermons, and leadership talks by Hybels.

WHAT HIS LEGACY WOULD HAVE BEEN

Bill_hybels_photoHybels had planned to retire this autumn. He stepped down in April amid the allegations against him. Until this news broke and snowballed, his legacy seemed sure to be his apparent Godly leadership and the tremendous positive impact his ministry has had on thousands of churches and millions of people.

WHAT HIS LEGACY IS TODAY

Hybels has denied doing what he’s accused of doing. Despite that, evidence is piling up, and there seems no reason to doubt the accusers. While Hybels was widely and deeply trusted and respected for years, his accusers are trustworthy and respectable women. Someone is lying, and it increasingly appears to be Hybels. To most people, it’s a foregone conclusion.

As it stands today, Hybels’s legacy is one of disgrace. Not only is he widely regarded as an adulterous abuser of women and a raging hypocrite who has betrayed everyone who ever trusted him, he’s also seen as a man who refuses to take responsibility for what he did wrong and, in doing so, maligns the women he already abused.

WHAT HIS LEGACY COULD BE

If Hybels truly is guilty of being unfaithful to his wife, abusive, and hypocritical — as he appears to be — he has an opportunity to forge a different legacy. He’ll never regain his original legacy, and he never could erase the facts of his current legacy. But, if he repents, his legacy would take on a new dimension.

Repentance would mean that he owns up to what he’s done — all of it. He wouldn’t mitigate it. He wouldn’t justify it. He would call it what it is. He would feel shame and express regret. He would apologize sincerely to everyone he’s hurt. He would rush to repair the harm he caused. He would hate what he’s done so much, he would do a one-eighty. He would turn over a new leaf. He would be a different man.

psalms_51_10_by_boughtbybloodme-d7ugvayThat’s what repentance does. What doesn’t it do? Repentance doesn’t undo what’s done. It doesn’t make everything okay. People have been hurt, and that doesn’t just go away. Admittedly, repentance is difficult to trust. How could anyone be sure he’s truly repented? Trust breaks into a thousand pieces, because that’s what it’s made of. It would take years of “new leaf” living to rebuild trust. But, if Hybels makes this choice and invites God to create a clean heart in him, it would be a beautiful thing for the world to see.

God’s done it before, and He can do it again. But the choice is up to Hybels. I pray that he makes that choice, for everyone’s sake. Such a decision would do some mending of hearts and shine a light on God’s grace and transformational power.

I’m grateful that God can create a clean heart in each of us. While we’re pointing fingers, let’s be sure to look in the mirror. No one is immune from temptation and sin. May each of us pray this prayer …

Make a clean heart in me, O God. Give me a new spirit that will not be moved. Do not throw me away from where You are. And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. Let the joy of Your saving power return to me. And give me a willing spirit to obey you. Then I will teach wrong-doers Your ways. And sinners will turn to You. (Psalm 51:10-13)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

4 thoughts on “Bill Hybels could leave a different kind of legacy

  1. Joel says:

    Have you read this NY Times article yet? https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/05/us/bill-hybels-willow-creek-pat-baranowski.html
    The quote from Tchividjian is disturbing, but probably true…”They don’t feel like the rules apply to them, because they’re doing great things for Jesus, even though their behavior doesn’t reflect Jesus at all.” That’s really depressing for us – the body which are the ambassadors of Christ.

    I agree he could leave a legacy that showed repentance in the refuse and debris of longstanding and deeply painful sin. God could do that through him, but he has to be willing to do so and repent. Its sad. No one wins here and it’s just another thing the world will shout at us when we try to tell them and show them in our lives and love that God loves them. It makes us look like hyporcrites.

    Also has Willow Creek or anyone publically or privately reached out to the women involved? I just feel that they should be cared for by the church and restored in community with Christ, and not just with the church being consumed with sweeping Hybel’s sin off the floor. It’s sad.

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    • Elizabeth Whitworth says:

      I do believe that Willow Creek has finally realized that they need to believe the women and care for them.

      I did read that NY Times article. Good insights from Tchividjian. This should be a reminder to every Christian to be extremely careful with our representation of God.

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